Not Your Normal
First Date
The dating game now is so hard! Loneliness is widespread in our nation and it’s sad. We are also all going 100mph so time is always a factor.
I am fortunate enough to not have to tangle with that beast but I know lots of people who are single. I also notice that a lot of people make the same mistakes again and again.
So it’s time to change the rules. If your current method of dating isn’t working this blog is for you. Here I am going to share 3 ideas for an out of the box first dates as first impressions count.
So firstly you need a date. Yes you could go trawl your local area but we all know the types that are always in the same pubs/clubs on a weekend. Scouting for ‘talent’ when they’ve got as much charisma as an old chip shop newspaper.
So what do you do now? How do find that person with the same interests, hobbies or opinions as you without going through a list of losers?
Well I have a few sites you should 100% check out starting with Wiltshire Dating Site. This site is a 50+ only site and this is so important. So many people of this age write themselves off as undateable. THIS IS NOT TRUE! You have so much to offer someone and you know 100% who are now. This is such a key factors to a successful relationship so if you know a single person in this bracket encourage them to get back in the game, even if it’s just for friendship.
However if this is you where do you go for a date in quite old Wiltshire? I mean it’s just fields and pubs right? WRONG!!
Are You Dancing is a great site that lists all dance classes and events in Wiltshire. Mostly Jive lessons which let’s face it is going to be so fun. Much better than sitting across a table and poking at a meal why trying to come up with conversation.
Dancing is the language of love and I can gaurantee laughing so pop over and see what they have. A fun activity for both parties and a good time for a couple on a first date.
I also have these Wiltshire Dating Sites where there are a few specific to the Wiltshire area. This covers all ages (18+) so lets move onto a date idea!
The Swindon Wyvern Theatre is such an under sourced place to take a first time date. There is nothing wrong with dinner and a show and a good excuse to laugh. Packed with comedy stars and tribute acts this really would be a great first date. Also dancing after if you want to stretch out the evening is an option. The train station is in town if you will be partaking in a little alcohol. So just great all round really.
Finally there is these if you trying out Wiltshire Dating which is a Wiltshire specific dating site. Connecting you with people you may not have met and possibly creating something amazing!
So for the final date idea I wanted to stick to Wiltshire’s root and I highly suggesst taking a walk.
Now I am aware of how boring that may sound but give me a minute. I mean Wiltshire is BEAUTIFUL!! Steeped in history and stunning views around every corner. Why not pack a lunch and take a strole through Avesbury or the many white horses we have. It will give you and your date time to get to know each other without the awkward over the table dinner. Plus being out in the Wiltshire countryside really is magical so make the most of it!
I really hope this blog may help you find someone special or even just a friend for life. Try to remember to think outside the cinema box when it comes to dates and stick to the activities you would be comfortable doing on a more regular basis. You don’t want to give false impressions of yourself. There are however so many sites and date ideas out there you can get cracking right now!!!
What was your worst first date? Do you have any great first date ideas? Any dating advice at all? Please let us know below so we have even more great advice.
Lots of Love,
Tahnee xxx
Oh yes, dancing would be choice! Best way to see if there is any chemistry😉
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I 100% agree! The language of love for sure x
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Thanks for the link back 😊😊😊
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Now i know why i suck at datimg sometimes lol.anyways thanks for sharing
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lol! I’m sure it’s not that bad but if they helped 😉 fantastic thanks
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Its been a while since I have gone on a date. Ages, more so. But yes, these ideas are a lot better than food and alcohol.
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i 100% agree. More to life than that
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The dancing one sounds so cute!
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Such a better idea than boring food and alcohol that seems to have become the norm xxx
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Yaa I think Dating game is very Hard for me…
Thanks for these tips
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Aw no sorry you’re finding it so hard 😦 glad this could help!
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Love this blog and the advice , thanks for sharing. 🙂
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Loved the advice 🙂
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Thank Vinod 🙂
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Loved these ideas, but I think starting first date with simple quite place would also be on the list 😉
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Yes that’s why I suggested a walk as the last one! Can’t beat just getting to know someone x
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Great ideas! Worst first date… the guy made me pay. Hrmpf. LOL. Loved this blog 🙂
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lol maybe he was making a stance on the old fashioned ways? I don’t care who pays just get food in my face hahaha xxxx
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love the ideas!
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Thank you my lovely! xx
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Love these ideas xxx
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thanks hun xxxx
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Well, Wiltshire’s root looks like a nice place. My idea of a date has been always a quiet place, to begin with, and if all goes well, you can get as loud as you want to be with clubs/pubs or movies or dancing.
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You get it!!!! Get to know each other first 100%
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