Dating Advice

Why Dating Can Be
The Best

Ok so let’s put our own instinctive need to couple with people to one side a moment and look at how amazing dating can be. There are lots of great things about being single but a lot of people don’t want to be. Let’s look at why sometimes dating is the best.

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Dating is the best when the person you’re doing it with is similar enough to you, however, different enough from you to make it just right. Not asking too much then really hahaha! What I mean by this is that there has to be some activity or hobby you both enjoy so that you can enjoy it together. Your date should also be different enough to you so then there is good ground for conversation.

Spending time getting to know someone is great and could potentially enrich your life. How is that not amazing? Even if it’s not to be in a romantic sense a new friend is never a bad thing either!
As long as you can keep the questions flowing during a relationship the more open and honest you and your partner can be.

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Having someone!
We live in an incredibly lonely world where we’re connected with nearly everyone. Just think about that for a moment. Loneliness is a terrible thing and is rife within our communities. This should never be your only basis for dating but everyone craves companionship. We all need somebody sometime, again, even in a non-romantic sense.

 

Going to nice places with someone you like,
I know this sounds a little materialistic and it’s not how it sounds honestly! There is, however, nothing better than going on great adventures with one of your favourite humans. Building memories that hopefully last a lifetime.

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Finally, sharing with someone.
Hopes, fears, dreams, and plans for the future. It’s nice to have someone just as crazy as you are stood by your side for it. Someone who shares the same with you and you’re able to intertwine them into a compatible future full of love, laughing, fun and more importantly LIFE.

I hate that people have bad dating experiences and in some cases put people off for life! I understand some people make a choice for themselves and that’s great that we live in a world where they can! For all of you though, who do feel your missing out, then these may be of some help.
Over 50’s Dating CornwallOver 50’s Dating GloucesterOver 50’s Dating Yorkshire and finally Over 50’s Dating Aberdeen.

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I hope this blog was helpful to you! What is your favourite thing about being single or a part of a couple? Lets us know below.

Lots of Love,
Tahnee xxx

 

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29 Comments Add yours

  1. Tahna de Veyra says:

    Yup! Dating can be fun … if you are with the right person. heheh

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    1. That’s why you take it slowly and get to know someone as best you can before committing xx

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  2. The Globe Runners says:

    you should never settle to be with someone out of fear of being lonely.

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    1. And sadly so many people do and are miserable!

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  3. Niki says:

    Great tips!! Sharing is my favorite 🙂 Every time you share a bit of your fears, your happiness, your hopes, your dreams or your time, you give a little extra of yourself to your partner! Sharing is caring!

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    1. It is like handing over a piece of yourself. Such a beautiful way to express it. Thanks Niki xx

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  4. Globejamun says:

    Being with someone is best feeling in the world. And people who have companionship are truly blessed.

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    1. They certainly are xxx

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  5. marinebing says:

    Your girlfriend or boyfriend should also be your best friend ! this is what it’s all about sharing and enjoying together !

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    1. Yes that is paramount to relationships isn’t it xxx

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  6. sarah says:

    I love going to nice and new places with him! Not in a materialistic way at all – but wanting to explore and experience the same things as they do, talk about it, and make lasting memories! We still talk about our trip to Amsterdam together 7 years later 🙂

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    1. So glad you get it Sarah! We haven’t stopped dating because it’s long term. Xxxx

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  7. Nimit Sharma says:

    Really, will helpful for me when I will date someone. Thanks for sharing

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    1. Glad it helped 😊

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  8. I’ve been in a relationship for almost 8 years now but I do remember some good things about dating. Meeting a new person is definitely exciting and you get those butterflies in your stomach. It’s also exciting to go on fun dates and getting to know each other. Sometimes people forget to just have fun and they end up playing too many mind games with each other which is the downside of dating.

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    1. Yes yes yes! Find someone looking for the same as you! Waaay to many games xx

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  9. Mercy says:

    I was single for a very long time because well, first I did enjoy being single and also I had not met (you know) “the one”. But after five years of being with my partner, I must admit that I love being a couple. A loving partner really nourishes your soul.

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    1. Mercy your so right. They really do xxx

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  10. Lisa K says:

    Oh gosh, I have been in my relationship for 17 years and can’t remember what it’s like to be single. But the growth that comes from a long lasting relationship, with the ups and downs creates a bond that can’t be duplicated. I am sure dating is fun though, lol.

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    1. I agree as I am a person who like stability but doing fun things with someone new is always fun!

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  11. I like to be very independent and self-sufficient so dating is a difficult task for me a lot of the time.

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    1. Or you find someone similar who’s also independent. That way they understand your need for independence xx

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  12. Ana Sofia says:

    You definitely need to find the perfect medium. Too alike can be disastrous, and too different, even worse! Need to be similar enough to have common ground but different enough to not be bored.

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    1. I could agree more hun xx

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  13. Kirti Arora says:

    being with someone is the best thing that can happen to anyone 🙂

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  14. jenruizwriter says:

    I’m not dating at the moment but haven’t ruled out the possibility moving forward. One bad experience isn’t worth all that!

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  15. lucyclarke123 says:

    You’ve got a good point about the fear of loneliness, fuelled by always being switched on via technology. Just how I feel when I leave our phone at home, jeez! I feel like I’ve lost a limb. Ha ha!

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    1. I do to but i try to put it away on silent when with company.

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  16. Kirti Arora says:

    I agree! It’s nice to have a companion with whom you can share everything:)

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