How to Ask Someone
On a Date
Ok, so today we are discussing some tips and tricks for asking that cutie out on a date. I have been asked how ‘Do you ask someone out?’ so many times over the past couple of weeks. I have decided to tackle this problem in one blog.
In a world where social anxieties are at an all time high. This obviously adds extra pressure to dating. Also, even without those social anxieties asking someone out can be hard. If this is something that isn’t going to be possible don’t worry. I have a sleuth of great sites you can check out. Making finding that special someone a little easier for you! Maidstone Dating, Clwyd Dating, County Down Dating, Lancashire Dating and Bournemouth Dating.
So what tips do I have for you brave lovelies who would like to boost their confidence and ASK for that date?
- If you are wanting to make that first move but find yourself to nervous, remind yourself that the worst they can say is ‘No’. If we’re honest, I will be, even if you’re single you will spare someones feelings most of the time with a, ‘Sorry I’m taken’. So don’t be worried and go for it!
- If you are really to nervous to ask for a date straight off why not ask for number? You could have a practice when your out at about (lol). However, just try it. ” Hey I just noticed you sat reading, drinking, looking pretty etc. I wondered if it would be ok to get your number?”. Obviously wait for them to reply, hopefully with a “Yes sure!” then you can “Cool let me just put it in my phone…..Sorry I didn’t get your name……That’s a really pretty name……..well cool I’ll give you text”!!! Then say your goodbyes as your busy in town.
If you do get a number by all means send a palimary text. ‘Hey it’s Insert your name here. I asked for your number earlier today, yesterday, lastweek etc. Just wanted to say hi so you’d have my number as well.’ Just casual really and hopefully the conversation will start flowing. Leading you to the perfect opportunity to ask for date!
If you receive no reply then DO NOT become a crazy texter and you all know what I mean. However, look at it as you did it, you found the courage to ask for the number in the first place.
- Try to be honest with why you are asking the person on a date. Do they have pretty eyes? Is it their smile or even their personality? Tell them seriously because the reason you are attracted to them will always be a compliment to them.
- Remember the worst thing they can say is ‘No thanks’! I know that’s repeated but we’re all told no on a regular basis and we shouldn’t take this as a reflection on ourselves. That’s hard but lets face facts we don’t know what other people are going through and that could be the reason they’ve said no. Nothing to do with you at all so stop missing out and ask!
So guys I hope this helps with asking out that potential date! What is your top tip for asking somebody out? Do you have the perfect chat up line? Let us know below in the comments.
Lots of Love,