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Today’s world can sometimes be a very difficult place to be, live and especially to date. We’re always going a million miles a minute and constantly on to the next thing to keep ourselves entertained. For some people this includes. people, partners and relationships too. I am not saying this is the case for everyone by any means. However, people tend to go through this cycle of finding someone and moving quickly. I mean they do love each other. But no, they then get bored and move on, not even seeing it. All the while complaining it’s ‘typical men’ or ‘nagging women’. Thus leaving a lot of people actually really lonely. No, we don’t all need a significant other to feel important or wanted. But sometimes you just ‘your person’ you know? With thousands of the best online dating sites and dating apps, it should be easy now, right? Well, it is much easier in fact and here are my top 5 tips for successful online dating. So if you need to Spring clean your profiles or a just starting out. These tips will help to get you off to a great start for 2018.

Honesty Is The Best Policy

As most of us are aware, we tend to exaggerate when it comes to our online profiles. From perfect Instagram lives and soppy facebook posts. Don’t mention my best friend the good ol’ filters. The best way to be on your online dating profiles is honest. Honest about who you are and what you are looking for. Being dishonest in this is only a disservice to yourself and your dating life. This means if you’re at a time in your life where playing the game is not an option be sure to make that clear. If children are a must for you sooner rather than later. All these things should be made clear when online dating. The same goes the other way round too. If you’re not looking for a long-term or serious partner be clear about that. This one tip is going to be key in finding those looking for the same out of a relationship as you are.

Do Present Your Best Self

Keeping things honest does not mean you can’t present your best self. I mean we all have flaws. But does he need to know that you need him to leave the house every time you dump for the first year or two, straight off the marks? probably not! Should you post that sexy selfie you snapped the other day that some may consider a little risque? Hell yes, you should because you are smart, you are sexy and someone out there wants someone exactly like you. Show them you are there and you’re not afraid to be all that you are.

Try A Local Site

It’s great finding love when online dating and all but what happens if ‘The One’ lives in Timbuktoo of the back of nowhere? Not a great scenario for most. This is why trying a site local to you is a great solution. They obviously focus on love in an area close to where you live. meaning pursuing a genuine and fulfilling relationship is very attainable. This is the end goal, right? So why not give yourself a better headstart? Plus your knowledge of the local area can be a great icebreaker. Who knows what you’ll have in common.

Use Up To Date Pictures

So the cute pic you took last year at the beach, you know the one in the super hot bikini? Well, that is probably ok to post so as long as you haven’t changed drastically over one year. The one from 10 years ago before children/weight gain/significant physical changes is not going to slide with most. Even if you’re not meaning to be sure you’re not catfishing. We’ve all heard the terrible stories of this that there is even a tv show dedicated to it. Even if you’re not aware you’re doing it, or maybe you are, if you’relooking for love and companionship it needs to be for who you are now. Not who you were or even who you would like to be. People need all the valid information available to decide if someone is right for them when online dating. It’s really unfair to lie or hide that from them when you’re playing the online dating game.

Don’t Be Afraid To Say Bye

You were messaging for a while but now it’s completely dwindled? Bye, Felicia. He is CONSTANTLY blowing up your messages and you’ve only talked once? Bye, Felicia. This has to be the best aspect of online dating and that is sifting through the losers or incompatibles without having to actually date a single one of them. Taking time to get a know a person through words before any physicality can be a very powerful thing. You can get to know and build very string friendships before taking it to any other level. This is something that is more than lacking in the real world of dating. Giving you a much better chance at choosing a more compatible partner for yourself when online dating.
Have you tried online dating? Maybe you have and can give us some tips or maybe you’d like to give it a try? Please let us know in the comments below and here are some of the best online dating sites if you think it might be for you. Seniors DatingGuernsey DatingDate Cambridge SinglesSingle Men In Humberside. If you’re looking for something a little less serious then please consider using No Strings Dating. This way you can follow all the tips above and rocket your dating game into top gear.
Lots of Love,
Tahnee xxx


21 Comments Add yours

  1. Niki says:

    Online dating… Oh man! I guess I am really old fashioned. It kinda creeps me out to be honest and makes me feel uncomfortable. Before I got married, I met a guy through Facebook. Turns out he was a completely different person in real life and was using somebody else’s pictures. Never again! LOL

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    1. Everyone starts as a stranger! Catfishing isn’t funny though. Xxx


  2. Globejamun says:

    Online dating is s brilliant idea. I think 💭 it’s perfect. I know so many people who’ve been happily married after finding and dating online. The internet has bought the world so close , so let’s make use of this avenue. Great post and very relevant, telling ppl not to be afraid to give a shot

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  3. Matt says:

    I dabbled in online dating for a while between relationships. I enjoyed it and if you use the above tips, and find someone else who is switched on, then it really can work. I think the goal is just to not set your expectations too high.

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    1. I think we all take that stance when going into dating anyway 😂😂 online dating should be just the same but cutting alot more bull💩


  4. sj says:

    Yes, online dating is so popular nowadays, I have heard many people finding their life life partners through it.

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  5. joniamac says:

    I haven’t tried online dating, maybe I will in the future. These are good tips.

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  6. Great read, I haven’t tried (as I’ve been in a long term relationship) I have friends who have met online and are now married and have kids!

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    1. That’s great nice too know it is working and helping love grow!


  7. Nathan says:

    I have heard of successful couples who met from online dating, but I just find it not very personal, so I’ve never given it a shot before. Hoping for things to just take its flow! 🙂


  8. Enele Ogah says:

    I might be such a fan of dating site but the few online friends that i have had and almost dated were not too bad, though I just knew I couldn’t date them!…hahaha!

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    1. Don’t put the friend zone too soon next time 😉😉


  9. echoesofhervoice says:

    I tried it, but it was unsuccessful. I find fake profiles or those who are not serious. Your tips are on point thought, and I truly hope others will follow them. Thank you for articulating the details well!

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  10. amiekay says:

    I have tried online dating but have never really had any luck with it, and know my dating profiles need an update before I jump back on! This is all great advice though, especially the part about not being afraid to say bye!

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  11. Jennifer Prince says:

    I hopefully won’t need this anytime soon or ever, ha! But I’m sure the world of online dating is hard to navigate!

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    1. I think it looks like it is but is really simple. It’s about knowing what you want and not being afraid to say no x


  12. Iva Ursano says:

    Oh man I did online dating for years…always an adventure!! Here in Guatemala, the online dating scene can be kinda “scary” so I just stay away from it…;) …xoxo great blog!!

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  13. pakulele says:

    I never tried but I know many people which met their partner through, so I guess it’s worth it

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    1. Exactly there has to be something there so you have nothing to lose overall!


  14. Well this is definitely the trend nowadays, but I can’t really understand how this works. It is somehow difficult for me to put my trust into something likeonline dating 😛 Btw you should watch the episode “Hang the DJ” from Black Mirror Season 4 if you haven’t yet 😉

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    1. 😂😂😂😂 not the vibe I would go for and for securities reasons a double date may be a great idea! 😥😥😥🤣🤣


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